Roses are red, violets are blue, if you’re alone, give some love to yourself too! Valentine’s Day is considered to be the day of love. However, society has shifted to focus more on the romantic aspect, versus familial or even self-love. It can be difficult for some not currently in relationships to make it through the day without wincing at the sound of “L-o-v-e” by The Hit Crew or tearing up at the sight of pristinely wrapped chocolates. While it’s certainly important to honor significant others, we must also celebrate our families, friends and most importantly, ourselves. Here are some ideas and activities for Valentine’s Day to ensure it feels just as special even if it’s spent solo.
1. Buy yourself flowers
Why wait for someone else to deliver a bouquet of red roses to your door when you can treat yourself? Going to a supermarket or local farmers market is the perfect way to boost your mood and spruce up your home at the same time. Flowers have also been proven to alleviate stress and boost moods as well as freshen up the air.
2. Relax at a spa or pamper yourself at home
Life is stressful enough without the pressure to have plans with someone on Valentine’s Day. Instead, make time for yourself by scheduling a facial, massage or other wellness treatment. If that isn’t up your alley, draw a relaxing bath or shower at home, put on some calming music and treat yourself to some quality time. Sheet masks, shower steamers, bath bombs and hair masks are all excellent ways to feel luxurious and renewed.
3. Eat a comfort meal
If you aren’t able to participate in Valentine’s Day traditions, you can at least eat a traditional comfort meal you enjoy. Food is one of the most important cultural and familiar ties, so getting a taste of home can be exactly what you need to feel loved. Whether you make it yourself or order out, enjoying a meal from your childhood or one that always brings you joy is a perfect way to relax. Put on a movie and your favorite pajamas and call it a night!
4. Call loved ones
Take the opportunity to reconnect with family or friends even if you aren’t able to spend time in person. Calling them can help you reconnect and is an enjoyable way to pass the time. Even if you do have plans with others, checking in on ones that live further away will build bonds. It might even brighten someone else’s day who was feeling lonely as well!
5. Volunteer
Doing something nice for someone else is a proven way to feel better. And on Valentine’s Day, plenty of people could use an extra mood booster. Whether it’s making cards, serving at food banks, helping out with animal shelters or anything else that would make someone’s life easier, you can leave an impact on the world and yourself.
6. Make Valentine’s Day arts and crafts
Just because you don’t have a romantic partner doesn’t mean you can’t make your house festive. Paper flowers, wreaths, painted mason jars and other cheerful projects are easy ways to enjoy the holidays and provide entertainment. Check out A Hundred Affections for inspiration!
7. Bake
Make your day sweeter by whipping up red velvet cookies or chocolate strawberries. If that’s not enough, putting on a movie or some music in the background can make the atmosphere perfect. Sharing extra dessert with your neighbors and friends can also be a great way to branch out and spread the love! Sally’s Baking and Food Network have amazing recipes to try!
8. Shop
Just like flowers, you don’t need a partner to buy that diamond necklace you’ve been dreaming of! Purchase an item you’ve been eyeing for a while to show yourself some love! Turning the day into a shopping spree complete with a stop at one of your favorite cafés is fun and productive. Restocking on old products or having an impromptu fashion show in new clothes is always exciting.
Hopefully these suggestions will guarantee the perfect Valentine’s Day. Whether spending it with people or alone, everyone deserves to enjoy themselves and feel the love!
